Ignore the rude people who are telling you to cancel your trip
She was the one who said she definitely didn't have enough money, and that she was "desperate". We were trying to be sensible, not rude. If posters don't give all the facts up-front, it's hard to give good advice.
it's a once in a lifetime trip
No it's not. I'm heading off on my third 6-month trip soon. And that's nothing to what some people manage.

