Well as a first time traveller i thought it may be a good idea to ask for this, i cant read anywhere on my post that is asking for a female in particular Nor looking for any sort of sleezy business, but thank you for assuming I appreciate your valued input and being generalised
You give such little information people have to "read between the lines" to try and guess what you are seeking. e.g. Party vs quiet life, temples vs beach, wildlife vs city, north vs south vs central, hiking vs cycling vs walking vs buses, 5* vs 4* vs 3* vs 2* vs hostels/etc, 1month or 2 months 3 months, $$$ vs $$ vs $, full time paid guide or "volunteer".
So many questions you cannot be surprised when people have to make assumptions and it seems a bit off when you object to their reasonable assumptions (reasonable based on your request). After the likely meaning I kicked myself for not spotting the likely meaning (maybe I'm a bit slow).
If you've decided to go to Vietnam you must have researched it a bit and appreciated how easy it is to travel and what areas you want to visit, etc.