disclaimer this that if you are going to travel through South Mainland Yemen - you should go through Kais Al Kalisi via the guys at Inertia Network - Inertianetwork.com. I discovered both too late; you live, you learn. You can message me at any time about these contacts.
As part of a six-month trip (for personal reasons) through the Middle East and parts of Africa, I decided to venture into Yemen Mainland. Because parts of the country are still in war and humanitarian crises, there were not too many options for guides or fixers. One name consistently came up in research in both positive and really negative ways. Despite all the negative reviews and finding out later that Kais had started up on ground again (by then it was too late as I was booked with some money gone through), I took a risk, ignored everything that felt wrong and decided to go with Abdul Ghanima (and his company Easy Travel).
I would like to say at the beginning of this (almost as a disclaimer) that no trip is perfect. Things will inevitably go wrong, especially in countries where the tourist infrastructure is not quite there right now (though Yemen had a burgeoning tourist infrastructure in its hey day). The trip was not perfect, and while Abdul and some of the guys were a bit aggressive at times, I went in knowing this. I found out some details about Abdul after the fact (with respect to my 'status' in the country - I was a 'reporter' in some areas, humanitarian worker in others, and I am neither), so really, all I am trying to say is that you need to be cautious / aware - confirm the agenda is just to the south (and not Sanaa or anywhere in the north).
Because there were so many negative reviews, I went in with low expectations honestly, with just hope and trust that I would at least be protected and feel safe. There were times where I needed heightened awareness, and I needed to stand up for myself with aggressive drivers, but I got through the country safely enough. I was treated decently well, fully understanding my position as a lone female in the Middle East, and I never felt like I was in immediate danger. But yes, if you go with his group / people, be prepared to voice yourself, be suspicious, ask lots of questions and be aggressive where necessary.
I do not think this trip is necessarily the right one for a backpacker who is looking for something really cheap, and maybe that’s where the disconnect lies at times (with the negative reviews). There are certain costs involved because of what the war has done to the economy and the extra security precautions involved. Finally, if you are a lone, single female traveller (as I was), remember you are visiting a place where you will need to tap into the “third gender” as a foreign female – you are sitting or walking through areas (or eating dinner) where it’s just men usually; they will stare; it is what it is. Sometimes, in conversation, males are brusque. This happened to me in Africa too – I would get the random pervy comment. Ignore it and move on. Talk a lot about and show pictures of your boyfriend or husband; there are ways around aggressiveness. I found it also much easier to blend in as a lone, female traveller by wearing an abaya and niqab, though the niqab is not necessary. You can pass through most areas with just a hijab and abaya (note this was different in talking to others in groups; I was fine as an Asian by myself). I will get into this later with my description of checkpoints. Point is, I went to south Yemen, and I would say, based on my own experience, which I felt entirely safe throughout. I was not heading into hot zones like Sana’a so maybe that contributed to the feelings of security. The south (and east) just felt really peaceful and warm.
I left Yemen with nothing but absolute love for the country – its overwhelming hospitality, kindness and warmth. Everywhere I went people were warm, welcoming and open – males and females (the ones I was able to talk to care of Abdul's brother - Majdi). I actually never felt unsafe in the areas I visited. I did heed caution from other travellers, and only walked around with my guide in the cities and villages. But, in Wadi Dawan for example, I could walk around the valley grounds tied to the hotel and be just fine.
Itinerary-wise I was there for 6 days – and I visited mostly the south. I started in Al-Ghaydah, passed through a bunch of coastal villages like Nishtun. I ended up in Al Mukalla – where I walked through the old town, visited the fish market and port, the new city gate, and the hanging fortress. From there, I visited Wadi Dawan, Al-Hajjarein, Seif, Beit Bukshan, Al Khoreiba, Tarim, Shibam, Seiyun. From Seiyun, I flew to Socotra for a different trip with Inertia Network (cannot recommend that group enough).
From an immersion perspective, I have had guides (like in Sudan – and well, I was with an archaeologist there) who were much better when it came to facts and history, etc. I have had a lot of bad guides as well – mostly in Asia. I was with Abdul's brother for the most part - Majdi. I would not say that Majdi is bad, or great from a conversational or learning perspective. He was engaged when he wanted to be. He answered questions where he could about politics and culture. When he was not engaged, he disappeared. And, I ended up having a really long, heated conversation with Abdul wherein another guide - Jamal needed to be brought in for my last two days in Shibam and Seiyun because Majdi just disappeared at one point, leaving me with the driver who could not speak English. I ended up exploring Hadramaut a bit more through a local English teacher - Abdulkarim, who I met at a school in the village of Seif. Jamal was a good guide, and I appreciated the ability actually to talk to his wife and niece and unveiled.
Now, onto visas and checkpoints:
Leading into Yemen, there are two military checkpoints that are quick and easy to get through. I waited nearly an hour at the Omani border to get clear passage to Yemen. They asked simple questions about my agenda and how long I planned to stay in the country, and if I was coming back to Oman. They checked my face underneath my niqab to match the passport photo. I also had to fill out a form about my passport and sponsor, in addition to providing my invitation letter of approval. I arrived around 9:20 am, and left around 10:30 am. Once I crossed into the Yemen side, it was just 10 minutes to clear the remaining paperwork. I was told later onwards that some groups and individuals have taken up to four hours to cross the border based on their passports (where they have been in the past perhaps).
Leading into Al Mukalla, there are two female checkpoints. They are easy to clear. There were no body searches; they are more interested in why you are here (in friendly conversation; the female officers were just honestly so nice and warm). I just had to show my passport and visa papers. At the second female checkpoint, the guard outside asked to see the inside of my duffel bag; it was a quick sweep. In and around Mukalla, there are many police checkpoints, but other than the two female checkpoints, I never had to get out of the car, and they were quick to pass through. The rest of the country was fairly easy. There are more checkpoints coming into bigger cities, but outside within the long distances, there were not many checkpoints at all, and our driver would usually just have to either flash his ID or say a few quick words. The only time I was ever technically asked to put on my niqab by the driver was crossing the Omani border. Every other checkpoint, I just wore the abaya with a hijab. In the Hadramaut region, an armed guard accompanied my car to Shibam, and walked around with us. Even here, I never really felt unsafe. I enjoyed walking around Shibam alot. Later onwards, I went to the top of the hill to experience the prayer call, and it was the most special experience ever.
There is a lot more that I can write -