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> I realize that it is human nature to continue looking for 'the best' place but in fact I don't think it really exists. I think there are many best places based on each individual's idea of best.

I also dont think there is a "best" place in the world, just as I dont think there is a "best" wine, a "best" food or "best" car, etc, if by best you mean the physical aspects, the best views, the best sunset, the best amenities and the like. But I am not convinced that most people travel with the goal of finding "the best" place.

To me, travel has been about the experiences, not the physical attributes of the places visited. I am sure that I would be very disappointed returning to some of the places I thought were fantastic places when I first visited, because what made those places so great were the people I was with or met, the experiences I had there, the excitement of experiencing a new culture. For me, one of the best places I have experienced was Pamplona, Spain during the San Fermin festival. The people I travelled with, the friendliness of the local people we met there, the atmosphere of the fiesta, the excitement of running with the bulls and into the arena - unforgettable. But it was not the place itself, (Pamplona is a nice enough city, but nothing special) but it was the experiences at that particular place and time which made it, for me, one of the best places in the world. But I have no ambition to go back there again.

I no longer think there is something better and perhaps there comes a time to realize that and be satisfied with what we have found.

To me, travelling to new places is not looking for something better. Its hard to explain to someone who doesnt have the travel bug, but for me, the journey itself, rather than the destination, is what I really enjoy. These days my travels are limited to 5 weeks a year, but rather than go to one place, Ill go to a country and travel around it. A bit of research beforehand ensures that I pick the places I think will interest me and I havent been disappointed to date. For a while, I started going back to places I had been to before, places I really liked and still like, but I personally find travelling to new places more interesting than to familiar places, even if I wouldnt call the new places the best, or second best, in the world.

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That's exactly right, Anacoluthon. It's not a case of being satisfied that we have seen the best or second-best, just preferring to see something different. Wayworn may think we don't get it, but we just look at things differently - apparently nobody is allowed to do that in his world.

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Anacoluthun, you wrote, "which made it, for me, one of the best places in the world."

That's exactly the point, it was the best on that day or week, now it isn't, in fact it never was and it can never be again. But it will always be one of the second best places in the world in your mind. The best is yet to come.

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It's totally subjective Wayworn. What may be a top spot for one person may be a touristed dive for someone else.

No two people are going to agree on what's best or second best. Just appreciate the place you travel to for what it is. An experience.

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Who said anything about 2 people agreeing on anything oonks. Stating the obvious, "No two people are going to agree on what's best or second best.", has nothing to do with what I have written. Read my lips, there is no best, only ever the second best. If you can't grasp the concept, that's fine, move on to another thread.

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2 people can agree on best or second best & on & on...& that can change constantly..but i get your subtle suggestion wayworn as i feel much the same..

...sometimes the best is good to go back to...sometimes best is something new but not as scenic or fun or whatever...but it's new & captivating albeit the thrill is a one time thing

...i'm flighty & easily bored.. have lots short spurts of solo bests..sort of like sex..

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I love the idea that all sex up until now has been second best and the best is yet to come germuno. LOL

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that's funny wayworn...but you may have a misspelling in that statement

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I think I c what u mean.

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ever funnier

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