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One never knows what adventures are in store when traveling. I was in tibet last month. I was a "one-erson group", with a guide and driver going to Everest Base Camp after spending a few days in Lhasa. We stopped at a small village to take a break. I got out of the van and was walking around when two vendor ladies approached me. They had their merchandise hanging on one arm, i.e., necklaces,bracelets, etc.

I smiled at them, shook my head and kept walking. They followed me. I again smiled, shookmy head and kept walking. Then I was surprised when one of them said to me, in perfect English, "I like you!" This certainly surprised me mainly because very few Tibetans speak English and those that do speak it with a heavy accent. But, again, I smiled at the lady, shook my head and kept walking. (She's is her 20's or 30's. I am an old codger.)

Then, again, in perfect English she said, "I love you!" This certainly caught my attentioon! I had not heard this pitch before in any of my travels. Usually, an eager vendor's first pitch is, "Where you from?" I kept walking but then decided that it was time for me to start practicing my price haggling techniques. So I approached this friendly lady. She smiled and again said, "I love you!" At that point I decided to get with the program and replied, "I love you, too!" She smiled big, giggled, said, "Oh!" and approached me as if to hug me. But when I reached out with one arm, she quickly pulled away. Of course, she was just fooling around.

We then got down to business. I looked at her merchandise(!!!). A nice hand-crafted turquoise necklace with a locket caught my attention, but she wanted 600 Yuan for it, about $90.00 U.S.! I countered with 100Y ($15.00). We discussed it back and forth, but when I started to walk away she finally accepted my 100Y.

I went back to the van. This lady followed me. I sat looking at her through the window. At one point she smiled at me and again very much to my surprise, she blew a kiss at me! She continued to stand there smiling and I got the impression that she was waiting for some reaction from me. So, finally took the hint and returned her kiss! That got an even bigger smile from her. Then I got the idea to take her picture. After a quick exchange of sign language she posed for me and I took it just before we drove off.

I laughed for about the next 10 miles! What shenanigans! And I still chuckle every time I remember this funny episode that took place in some remote village on the way to Mt. Everest. My guide also laughed especially when I told her that I forgot to get the phone number of "...the lady who loves me!"

PS: Obviously her ploy worked because I did purchase an item from her. Later when I asked my guide if I had paid too much for the necklace she replied with a firm, "Yes".

Such are the vicissitudes of foreign travel!

We then got down to business. I looked at her merchandise(!!!). A nice turquoise necklace with a locket caught my atention, but she wanted 600 Yuan for it, about $90.00 U.S.! I countered with 100Y ($15.00). We

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Sorry for the extra verbage at the end of my post, above. I have a problem with formatting when I write lengthy posts.
SanchoPanza1

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If you were happy to pay then it wasn't 'too much' - besides, think of the ego boost you got for free - priceless ;-)

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Looks like you enjoyed yourself.
We could've met - almost. I was at EBC also last month, but from the Nepali side. And I walked all the way, as there are no roads, only paths, and nothing on wheels.

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That reminds me of Ankor wat - it was a slow day I guess and one vendor followed me everywhere bothering me to buy something. At last, I had to stop for lunch and she thought she had me trapped. When I constantly refused everything she said "What is it you want?"
I said "to be left alone."
"Oh" she said "To be left alone, that costs $25. Would you like a bag with that?"

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Imagine what it's like to have to degrade yourself like that with silly foreigners to make a living,

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'have to'????
If the posts are a true account of events, how are the 'foreigners' concerned behaving is a silly way??
How is having a little fun with a potential customer 'degrading'? - it's hardly selling one's body.
Come off the high horse!

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When you talk to people that have to deal with foreign tourists to make a living, they have very little respect for any of them, or the kind of culturally inappropriate stuff they have to do to sell junk.

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I have very little respect for most people - respect has to be earned!
Quite frankly, if I was concerned about what every peddler who tried to sell me junk at exorbitant prices thought about me then I'd never have time to appreciate the sights, sounds, smells, tastes, culture and people of the country I was visiting.

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Hmmm, I think something is missing here - who among us has turned foreign travel into little more than a world-mall trip - where all they really do/care about is shop, shop, shop, shop shop. If the shopping obsessed would knock it off or just go bother one country - say, maybe North or even So. Korea - the number of prospective vendors would collapse and they could go back to their underemployed, poverty stricken, half-starved lives. Then would they "respect" foreigners any more? I was in Indonesia during both financial crises and there were people in Lombok for example, who had not eaten in two days - nothing (including one driver I used who had 3 kids who were all hungry). I didn't buy useless junk from any of them, but I did give them money for food.

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