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I think a question like this (the questions you are being asked by others Lillie) is asked either by someone who is old mentally or thinks like an under 30 who figures everyone over 30 is old. I've met people who were far older than me mentally and physically while at the same time they were a decade or more younger than me chronologically.

There are very few physical issues that are actually connected to age. For example, bad knees are more likely the result of some abuse in the past than due to simply getting older. Studies have shown again and again that remaining active results in remaining fit and capable of activities at pretty much any age. I just saw a clip on TV referring to a ski instructor in New York State somewhere who continues to ski daily and give lessons at age 90. Try telling her she's too old.

A sedentary life on the other hand is likely to result in physical limitations later on. Of course we are all where we are now and can't go back to change things. Those that are asking or suggesting you should be slowing down are the ones who are probably in trouble Lillie. At 65 (as of last week) there is nothing I cannot do that I did at 35, I just do some things a little slower and that isn't necessarily bad, ask my wife.

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'people my age think I should be 'putting my feet up', buying a new pair of slippers to go with the zimmer frame and taking things a bit easier'

54 is really very young compared to some of the travellers on this board. If 'people your age' feel that, then you can rest assured you'll still be zipping around and getting the most out of life when they're sitting zonked out of their minds in retirement homes.
Of course, I imagine they'll think you're smug, right now. Because you're daring to do the tings they didn't when they were younger and it;'s right out of their 'comfort zone'. You may lose a few friends because of it, but you make so many more on the road ...

I've just been sent an email from a friend my age who's teaching English in China right now. She took one of her holidays to romp around Cambodia and had a heap of fun.
I met her on this site just before I went there and we couldn't believe how much we had in common. It was like meeting a twin. Something that would never have happened without this board.
She mentioned a 'travelling gene' which has just been discovered. Interesting reading - look it up on google. My ancestors were Vikings and, on t'other side, seafaring Scots, so there might be something in this. Has anyone in your family been a traveller also?

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Travelinstyle46 - it would be a brave person who told me my knee problem is the result of a sendatary life. 9 acres of house garden (kept by me and me only), Everest base camp,Leh, China before bikes with multiple gears, Cinque Terra (pre Rick Stevens), and I could go on. Mine have worn out - not rusted. The heart's still willing the knees aren't.

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There are always exceptions ohwell to any generalization. That's why it's a generalization, it's generally correct not 100% infalible. LOL

I am prone to bursitis. It first showed up in my knees in my early 30s when I was doing a lot of hiking/backpacking. I'd be 2 days into the wilderness and having to walk like a robot without bending my legs. It's common in elbows (tennis elbow) and I get it from time to time in my shoulder joints as well. Any repetitive action can inflame the bursa and that is the problem. But it comes and goes. Resting the joint for a length of time usually sees it go away.

But I'm sure you will agree that someone who is a couch potato most of their life is hardly likely to be trekking to Everest base camp in their 60s or older, whereas a woman I knew did Kiiamanjaro in her early 70's. She was active right up until the day she died in her late 80s. GENERALLY, the more active you are throughout life the more active you are able to remain later in life.

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A further point is that the older I get the more I realise that the time ahead of me is more limited (of course at 30 I had unlimited time ahead as I suspect we all did!). So whatever it is that you want to do (not only in the travelling field) DO IT NOW!

PS No apologies for the capital letters.

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Right on - Mellamopaul. I think it is important to enjoy your life and live each day to the fullest. I am 50+ and still ski downhill and take adventureous vacations every year. Last year my bf and I went on a 4 week self-drive to South Africa, Swaziland and Zambia, that including hiking, ostrich racing (for him) and lots of walking.

I also like to snorkel - wish I were better at it - and would one day like to learn to scuba dive. I work out 3-4 times a week, which includes weight-lifting. I think that is important to maintain my active lifestyle.

I also agree with traveling46 that you have to stay active throughout your lifetime.

My grandmother was a role model for me, as is my father. My grandmother volunteered at a local food bank until she died at 84. My father did not retire until he was 78 and still plays golf - his passion - everyday at 81.
My bf. also 50+ works from sun up to sundown, and always finds something to do around the house. I ask him if he ever gets tired. He says that he can rest when he is dead. I agree.

Btw, 50 is not old. Age is just a number, and a state of mind.

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Comin' up for 67 soon and will be off to Tuscany for the wife's dream (oh well) and then Turkey for 3 weeks ,which to me is much more of an adventure. Bike riding and swimming are the two exercises I feel comfortable with and get a bit of heart action. Meditation and yoga are good too and I just did a Dzogchen course with a wonderful old Tibetan teacher who is very inspiring. Also have a position organising a part of the Dalai Lama tour of Australia in June . When we had floods and cyclones here in Queensland recently it was great to help the Red Cross for 3 weeks....
I love watching my movie unfold and fortunately the body is pretty good so far too...
Energetic travelling is good in short bursts, specially if balanced by some sitting and watching.
Wild and exciting has lost most of it's appeal -and I see that as progress really........

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I took up cycle touring aged 56 and have just finished 6 months in Asia on the bicycle at 59 years young so ya never to old as for a zimmer frame maybe ya can get a motorised one when the time comes keep smiling.

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Age is just a number. Put your mind at the right "altitude" and go as long as you can. I'm off to Africa for nearly 7 weeks -- 26 days of that on safari and we'll be camping in tents on the ground -- not the high end version of a safari. I've had each hip replaced, arthritis in both knees and I'll be celebrating my 63rd birthday while in south Africa. gotta keep moving -- lots of time for the alternative.

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What's a zimmer frame?

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