Theo, I've never flown Etihad, but given the huge number of contenders for piss poor performance and zero customer service in this region, I find it almost impossible to believe that Etihad are the worst airline in the middle east.
I know that their flights to Asia are not of the same standard as their flights into Europe, but I know a significant number of Dubai based people who choose to fly Etihad to Europe rather than Emirates these days, based on reliability and airport location, and not on price. They wouldnt do that if Etihad were routinely as bad as you believe.
Also, although one person has made a large number of positive comments, there have been an additional 3 regular and reliable ME branch posters who also praise Etihad. Your post comes quite close to insulting them by ignoring / disregarding their input.