Fair enough.
Both of those are box-checking I guess for me,in a different way.
I try for something different...long enough to see some of the major sites (the ones that sound interesting,not the 'top 25' or whatever)....and long enough also to relax,sit and watch,meet people who live there or people that know the place better than me (which may well be other travellers) and try to get off the beaten track.....
That implies of course that you have a reasonably long time in a place,and that it is not 'fixed'...you can stay an extra 2 or 3 days,or a week,or even a month or more.Which you can't do on a cruise....

