Looking for small Hotel on the Costa del sol for me and my 11 year old daughter. In August for 2 weeks.
Haven’t been to this part of Spain . And don t wish to stay on a large complex.
I’ve tried looking on the internet with no luck, mostly villas and apartments for 4 - 6 people.
Doesn’t have to be near the beach as we will have car hire. If any one has stayed in a small hotel in this area who can recommend to me would be much appreciated.

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As touristy as Costa del Sol is the "typical" accommodation will be resorts and villas. If you make an effort I think you will find something more cosy. I always recommend rural hotels as you get a more personalized treatment from the owners, better value for money and a place with more character. Book now for August - it'll be insanely busy.
I won't get into my personal reasons for disliking Costa del Sol - your mind seems to be made up. If you'd like to know the reasons please PM me.

Hostal Mena in Nerja? It's very inexpensive most of the year (€35 a double), but probably quite a lot more in August.
Or if you don't mind not being at the beach, why not try a pensión up in the hills of the Axarquía behind Nerja? It will be low season there, as many tourists go to walk.