it's curious that a white male asks about safety of his chinese girlfriend
The racial stereotyping that drips from this sentence is jaw-droppping. Why is that particular combination curious pray tell? What if i was asking about my white girlfriend? Presumably she wouldn't be small, demure and so cowed by her over-anxious white male oppressor that she post herself right? That you think it 'curious' at all only goes to show that in your quest for some sort of PC one-upmanship you neglected to read the following from my original post :
My (female) Iranian friend has plenty of annoying/unpleasant stories about Mediterranean Europe and casual racism/sexism/minor harrasment
which is where my concern is rooted rather than some tabloid press hysteria about the safety of the balkans based on the memory of the conflict. The same sort of on the ground, first-hand experience you refer to in great detail in the rest of your reply:
she appears not to be concerned, rightly so.
Rightly so? The elucidation.
After the brilliantly succint answer of daveelmstrom yours stuck out like the faux-liberal, smarmy drivel that it was, and that got my goat a little, so unless you've got anything to say about Croatia that might be based in fact not lefty knee-jerk spouting, be gone and never darken our doors again.
After that thank you to all who've responded with advice etc.
Edited by: andrewlaws