Hobbiton (actually, Matamata). This is a private farm, and they charge top dollar and yes, you have to take their tour to see it, but there's nothing to stop you saving some money by driving yourself to the farm, then just paying for entry.
Rotorua - see it yourself, no need for guides if you have a vehicle.
- We really enjoyed Wai-o-Tapu, about 40 minutes south of Rotorua. Drive yourself there, and get there before 10 so you can see them set off the geyser. 2-3 hours was fine.
- Pohutu geyser and Te Puia was also well worth a visit for the combination of geysers, and Maori Culture. Do the evening show/Hangi and they take you for walk to the geysers in the evening. There's also a small exhibit with living kiwis
- Polynesian spa, for just lounging in hit pools
- The redwood forest, a few minutes out of town, to escape the smells, and the crowds and have a peaceful walk in a fabulous, quiet, beautiful setting.
There are other parks, and in 6 days you can see them all, but these are the ones we saw and enjoyed. There is also the public thermal park just on the edge of the city, which is interesting to walk a round, and the gondola and luge ride, which was great fun, and the best of the three luge rides in NZ.