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OK, this is about planning my first trip to Cambodia and possibly Viet Nam. I am a pretty experienced budget backpacker, but recently have had to recognize a few minor limitations. Actually its pretty much one: that is me passing my 7th decade!

I am more surprised than anyone to discover that have somehow turned 71. Friend of mine said that if he knew he was going to live that long,he'd have taken better care of himself. Well. despite having hit that number, I still have just as much of a desire to take off just to see what's at the end of the next road. And I refuse to accept the title of “senior traveler!” That's for old guys.

That being said, I do have to accept the fact that there now might be some new limitations along the way for me.. Like climbing stairs. I manage them just fine, only they take a bit longer and if there are lots of them, it can get painful. I think this is going to also mean that I will not be riding on the roofs of many buses (unless there is a secure ladder up the side) or choosing nights in a tree house that is more than 40 feet up. And there are a few of the )now) usual things about diet, but I am pretty sure that won't be much of a problem. I usually loose a couple of pounds on a trip, which beats the hell out sitting at home dieting!

Given the choice, I still opt for budget accommodations - I love meeting other travelers – but on recent trips, I found that an occasional night in an air conditioned room is lots more appealing than it used to be. Same goes for having a bathroom really near by! Have also become a good buddy of Bill W., yet another story.

As to visiting Viet Nam: I have heard some stories of guys my age visiting there and being made a bit uncomfortable in some situations. Anybody have any comments or suggestions here? I was not in the US military, but I would have 'come of age' at the time the war there was at it's worst. Actually as a professional photographer, I photographed hundreds of anti-war demonstrations and lots of my work was published here and in a number of publications around the world. It is also possible that some of my photos are in a museum in Hanoi; would love to find out for sure, but don't know if that means anything to anybody one way or another.

At this point I am planning on traveling for about 3 weeks at the end of October/beginning of November. Our wedding anniversary is just before that – 35 years with the same Lady! - and she would like me back for Thanksgiving.

So, given all in this garbled narrative, I am really up for any suggestions as to must see places, places to stay, places to avoid, routes to follow and so on. Any advice most appreciated!

My thanks in advance to all!

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Not garbled at all Maury, perhaps because we're on the same age/wave length. I was in the military in those years but fortunately in Germany not Vietnam. I never experienced any hostility from the locals in my later travels to Vietnam If there is one good reason to visit Vietnam it is the people. And I don't mean the spamsters who troll here. The war has been long over for them, in fact, China is the now the undeclared enemy. Just go. One caveat however if there are any health issues make sure you take care of them before you go or else get medical evacuation insurance. You'll have a great time there and I'll bet a damn good homecoming around Thanksgiving.

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Nice post maury, made me smile, age should never stop the craving to explore, good on you, I haven't yet been to Vietman either, have a great trip :)

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As above, have no fear, you'll find lots of people with grey hair traveling around SEA. By all means get travel insurance with medical and evacuation coverage. And, when booking rooms try to get a lower floor, there are a lot of family run mini-hotels that are tall (5-6 floors) and skinny without lifts. Here are some good websites:
http://www.travelfish.org (prices are out of date, but great info otherwise)
http://www.canbypublications.com (lots of basic information on Cambodia)
http://www.booking.com and http://www.agoda.com (hotel booking sites)
You'll find a great selection of rooms around SEA in the $10-30 range, some with breakfast included, and in mid to upper end of that range you'll get AC.
And, while you may, or may not be a fan of fast food chains, you can usually count on them to have clean, free toilets!

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Before I first visited Vietnam I also had a lot of ideas about it, based mostly on studying history. My impressions of it were based on war movies etc. Once I got there however, I was surprised to see that people there cared about the Vietnam war as much as a typical american 20 year old does. Vietnam is a very young country, the median age being 28, and that defines it. Be prepared to be shocked by the amount of motorcycles and the fact that it's very difficult to move around on foot in the large cities. Cambodia's much easier to get around. Vietnamese salesman can be extremely aggressive, if you make eye contact or stop they will hassle you. Cambodians won't so much. If you just walk past and say no thank you without making eye contact you're acting like an expat and they won't bother you. Also avoid taxis from the airport unless it's with one of the two reputable companies. Enjoy your trip!

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Do not worry about the war.

My first experience in Vietnam was in 1989 where it was important to learn to say

"I am not russian but am ......" any western country was OK and immediately the attitude would change from hosility to friendship. Also on this first visit I asked a former N Vietnames soldier who spent years fighting in the tunnels how he now felt about showing the westerners around the tunnels and he said:

"the western governments were our enemies not the western people"

I thought this the polically correct answer but the truth is in all my time in Vietnam I have never expeinced anything to disprove this statement.

don't worry about the age thing true steps and stairs may be a problem but perhaps more of a problem could be the uneven surfaces.

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I am getting on a bit too, not as old as you but old enough.
You should not have any problems. Age is not a problem in VN. I spent eight weeks there earlier this year, my sixth visit, and got around easily.

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"As above, have no fear, you'll find lots of people with grey hair traveling around SEA" And there's a reason for it too. It's quite simply true that older people are treated with a great deal for respect in SE Asia, irregardless of their country of origin, than they are in their own country. Also, if I were you I would be tempted to pm the next poster haiha132 and take her up on her offer. I bet you'll have a great time.

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Just get a couple of tee-shirts printed up with Jane Fonda on the front and Joan Baez on the back.

Sorted!

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I've been to Vietnam with Vietnam veterans your age, no problem. In a dozen visits to Vietnam I have met one (1) person who was at all bitter about the war, and she was mad we left. In general, the Vietnamese are extremely hospitable. I just traveled around the world, visited a dozen countries, and nowhere even competed with Vietnam for friendliest inhabitants.

If you are interested in history, do not miss the War Remnants museum (which has a room dedicated to the American anti-war movement), the Cu Chi tunnels, or the old Presidential Palace.

Even budget accommodations will have A/C, although in budget-budget places, an A/C room might be a dollar extra. There will be stairs, though. Any guest house in a big city, you will be walking up a flight of stairs and probably two.

Stay hydrated, use bug-repellant, and wear a hat.

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