both great countries and offer different things , Colombia is more modern and have beaches also. The people are more outgoing in Colombia. Bolivia a lot more indigenous and will have more potential "issues" like protests and roadblocks that could interfere with a short schedule (and you cant predict these). Additionally you have to take into account acclimatizing which will be more of a hindrance in Bolivia for a short trip.
That said , for photos I would say Bolivia has better subject matter (personal preference of course).
Is it safe to take a DSLR to la paz - of course , but it will all depend on what YOU do and how YOU act. It is fine to walk round in the day time in many areas of La Paz with it in full view if you are going to keep you hands on it and be aware of your surroundings. You have it dangling behind you in a busy market area and it will be up for sale in a market in El Alto by that afternoon
Bolivia produces coffee also , just that Colombia is more famous for it. Unfortunately there is not an abundance of great cafes selling it but if you know where to find it you can find great coffee. In Zona Sur in the San Miguel area there are two quite new boutique cafes that offer high quality coffee, some imported but a lot from Bolivia, and you can choose your preparation method, blend etc This would be a great place for you to try out some top quality coffee.One of them sometimes has talks in the evenings by experts area.
People often talk about rainy season causing problems for travelling when in reality it doesn't cause that many problems for most travelers. Yes the roads become damaged and it can take longer to go on certain routes but usually these are the same routes - between La Paz and Uyuni and sometimes between La Paz - Potosi - .Sucre. What usually happens is buss take longer alternative routes adding several hours to the journey. For a short schedule such as yours you could avoid these issues by flying instead. The flights to Rurre and back can experience delays but now the runway is paved it is rare a delay is longer that a day (vast majority of flights to leave the day they are scheduled)