Hi Chillg8r
When Richard talks about the conservancies he is referring to ones like (but not limited too) Mara North, Naboisho, Ol Dereski, Olare Motorogi and others. There are places to stay atop the Oloololo escarpment but these wouldn't be ideal as you're outside the Mara ecosystem and it'll be a drive to get down to the plains. There are a number of very good places to stay inside and around Mara North/Lemek and the Mara Traingle conservancies (this last one is not technically a conservancy) at the foot of that escarpment and they would all be good areas to be based. Most border the Mara river. However, as I mentioned staying in any of these places is very expensive by almost anyones standards. They are selling a very exclusive experience. There are no other game vehicles except those belonging to the very few lodges in each conservancy. You cannot do a game drive in them unless you're a guest of the lodge. When you check the prices you're first reaction is likely to be one of shock (we're talking hundreds and hundreds of dollars a night - often well over a thousand) but do keep in mind that these lodges are not keeping this money themselves. The way the conservancy system works (very briefly) is that the conservancy leases the land for around fifteen years at a time from the local Maasai. The Maasai still get to use parts of the land for their cattle, (which is actually the natural state of affairs and is to the advantage of many animals - the situation inside the reserve itself where cattle and Maasai herders are 'technically' banned - though hundreds and often thousands of cattle are taken inside the reserve at night by the Maasai - is not a natural system) though most is dedicated to wildlife. The animals gain, the Maasai gain and the tourist gain. It's a win-win situation though might not be sustainable in the long term because it's reliant on exclusive high end tourism paying massive bucks to visit and tourism is very up and down. So, essentially when you check the conservancy lodges prices keep in mind that you'e not just paying for a bed and meals but to preserve the entire eco-system. For more on all this have a look at the website of the project I am currently working on: www.walkingwiththemaasai.com
Any lodge/camp you chose in the conservancies will be amazing. If, as you indicate, you are on a more normal budget though some of the more affordable ones are the Kicheche Camps, the Basecamps (they also have a camp in Talek village which is fantastic but is for the reserve not the conservancies) and Offbeat Mara (I really like the low-key nature of this one). If you're after a more cultural experience then I would suggest also checking out Maji Moto Eco Camp which is quite far north of the reserve but is a good price (around US$100 a night I seem to recall) and Jans Camp in the Loita Hills where the wildlife is very different (colobus monkeys, turacos and other forest creatures). Camps in the main conservancies are also listed here (along with more info on each conservancy) http://www.maasaimaraconservancies.co.ke/ and http://www.maasaimara.com/ which covers the reserve as well.
As for visiting towns if you go to places like Kakamega forest, Kitale (Saiwa Swamp, Cherengeni Hills and museums etc), Mt Kenya region or around Lake Victoria then you will automatically be visiting the towns. Yes, cheap, simple but normally clean and comfortable places to stay in all those places (Kakamega forest has a wonderful value guesthouse/lodge). It's all very safe and would be very rewarding for you. Normally when you rent a car in Kenya it comes with a driver, but self-drive is possible though don't expect to save much money and it's more hassle and more tiring. There are also decent bus services but as you're holidaying as a family it's better to go with the freedom of a private vehicle.
There's a new edition (couple of weeks old) of the Lonely Planet Kenya guide out. We've expanded it quite a lot from the previous editions and it gives you all the details on all of this and includes places to stay in all the towns etc that tourists are likely to visit. Richards guide is also excellent but I'm not sure when the new edition is out.
If you need any suggestions for Ethiopia I'm also happy to help as I write that guide as well - you can email me direct on mail@stuartbutlerjournalist.com
Stuart
