Hi all
Does anyone know of any good community groups or forums for meeting potiential partners for those traveling solo??
I'm hoping to go to Africa in Jan 2010 and would love to find someone to come with me?
Any advice would be much appreciated.
Thanks
Julie







mirsantana Hey, how's it going... on my last trip i went to Oaxaca Mexico for day of the dead.... i went last year as well but i went with a boyfriend i had at the time... and it was our 1st time traveling together...after our 3 weeks in mexico...we set off in jan. on our around the world trip that didn't last to long i ended up coming home 5 months early...haha i only lasted a month.... but anyways this year i said i wanted to experience Oaxaca on my own ....and i did just that i booked a dorm room at a hostel, and i was set. but b4 i headed out i posted a few post on couchsurfing.com on a few different travel companions groups and i got a few hits from others that were going to be traveling to Oaxaca or in mexico...and that worked really well... i agreed to meet up with some people... of course seeing as how dead of the dead is huge in oaxaca do to so many things to see and do ... i wasn't able to meet up w/some of the people i had talked to on couchsurffing...
mirsantana but i met most of the people i hung out with at my hostel and it was great... just because since i wasn't traveling with them...i DIDN'T HAVE TO eat lunch w/them... or go on a day trip with them.... if we wanted to hang out or meet up we'd agree to something.... and i loved that about traveling alone... because when you travel with a friend it takes more work to agree on stuff... i found it to really liberating and it totally built my confidence as well.
i think i would have been just fine even if i hadn't posted anything on couchsurfing.com and also when you travel alone it forces you to be more social and that's how you meet amazing people :)
mirsantana oh also i think it's great ur going to be volunteering while you travel... i had planed to do that while in oaxaca but....we lets just say there was one to many festas :)
and as far as not being able to make decisions trust me you'll do just fine i'm the same way but i found that if i didn't JUST IT then i might as well be sitting at home plus people that you meet might help with some decision making :)
happy travels
mirsantana hopefully this helps :)
http://www.couchsurfing.org/group.html?gid=31
http://www.couchsurfing.org/group.html?gid=14